Monday, May 12, 2014

Mothers Day.. did you talk to your mother?

Happy Monday.

  So, yesterday was mothers day. My mom is in not so well of health that she told me not to come and visit her yesterday. She lives in St. Cloud, so it would only have been about a 45 min drive for us. So, I called her instead and we talked for a bit. I am the oldest of 6 children, and I was the only one to call her on Mothers day. Yep.. just lil ole me... while on the other hand, my younger sister, who lives literally down the street from her did not call, nor did she go and visit her. Why you may ask?? I sure as shit don't know, but when I found out that she would rather instead, visit with her boyfriends mother, I became so angry, that I wanted to call her out on it and ask her why she has nothing to do with our mother?! I can only assume that we just don't fit in to her materialistic world, and that my mom is poor. Yeah, I am making assumptions, but I am allowed to. My moms in poor health and we are the only two who are remotely close to her and I am the only one who takes time to just call and say "I love you, Mom." Now my brothers may live out of state, but that is no reason NOT to call your mom, period. I am fed up with my no good family, and sometimes wish I had been born an only child. Really.. I mean come on.. This is the woman who gave birth to you, loved you, even had to let you go for a period of time, but she was always there, and she still is. You just need to give her a call. I know her time is short on this earth, and I really don't want to be the bitchy big sister when she passes, but at this point, I will have every right to be just that. I love my mom. And I do what I can for her, even in its smallest measure, but to live so close and have no contact at all.. there's absolutely no excuse for that. Really! anyway.. rant over.

I hope that all of you had a great day with your mom and I hope that above all she heard I love you more then once from her children!

Mary~

4 comments:

  1. Even though your siblings were being asses I'm sure your mom was very happy to know that you love her and was thinking of her.

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  2. I cant think of a reason why not to call my mother everyday and say hi and I love you.

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  3. In life I have found it necessary to make a few rules, so I don't go crazy & deal with stupid people. About 56 of them now. Rule #6. (found this out early) DO NOT expect anything form anyone. That way when they do what they want You are not disappointed and if they do the right thing You can be pleasantly surprised.

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  4. You are correct on so many levels! My mom is in Cali and I haven't seen her in yrs and yet I still called her on Mother's day..

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